Zupooli/410M-sft-tldr-eval-dataset · Datasets at Hugging Face

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t3_1hxu8s	relationships	I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting	Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating roand it effected me more than I thought. It was a horrible time in my life due to living with my mother and finally having the chance to cut her ...	I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...	I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 1335, 452, 3057, 342, 271, 1711, 385, 434, 3858, 533, 476, 626, 1462, 281, 923, 390, 2312, 281, 779, 15, 3032, 3858, 403, 1663, 5322, 1157, 601, 849, 513, 309, 2028, 731, 309, 6830, 971, 281, 5369, 6902, 731, 327, 6745, 984, ...	47	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 313, 71, 16, 1423, 10, 452, 281, 4677, 562, 604, 309, 971, 281, 1335, 871, 841, 6838, 390, 417, 285, 651, 9239, 281, 3590, 50124, 187, 187, 15743...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	485	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...
t3_33lz18	loseit	SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on.	30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my diet, and the last week and a half have been crazy with life things, ...	Progress is still happening, even when you think it might not be! Don't get discouraged, even if your journey seems to be going slowly. Don't give up, warriors.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...	Progress is still happening, even when you think it might not be! Don't get discouraged, even if your journey seems to be going slowly. Don't give up, warriors.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 28225, 310, 1335, 9369, 13, 1014, 672, 368, 1158, 352, 1537, 417, 320, 2, 5037, 626, 755, 42965, 13, 1014, 604, 634, 9455, 3133, 281, 320, 1469, 7808, 15, 5037, 626, 1918, 598, 13, 29353, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	37	SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 77, 583, 262, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 17370, 708, 6640, 55, 2, 46769, 327, 7562, 327, 15, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1884, 39, 13, 608, 8, 23, 3446, 13710, 27, 28131, 23765, 27, 7783, 34444, 2...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	334	SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...
t3_38a85h	relationships	Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell?	What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've realized that there is someone who likes me, and I'm interested in them, too. Frankly, the only reason I'm not askin...	My skin is scarred badly; what could I do/say about it that would gross my future partner out the least? What's your experience with body image issues?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...	My skin is scarred badly; what could I do/say about it that would gross my future partner out the least? What's your experience with body image issues?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 2752, 4808, 310, 12689, 433, 16426, 28, 752, 812, 309, 513, 16, 19506, 670, 352, 326, 651, 13711, 619, 2852, 7832, 562, 253, 1878, 32, 1737, 434, 634, 2793, 342, 2133, 2460, 3374, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	35	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 746, 39, 62, 342, 619, 3331, 544, 746, 46, 62, 884, 2607, 13, 496, 1704, 19940, 428, 10684, 390, 19906, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1737, 403,...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	327	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...
t3_2as12n	personalfinance	Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment?	I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of these, which will get rid of everything above 5% interest and will drop the total minimum payment t...	$14k in student debt (all <5%) and need to save more for down payment on a ~$300k house. How to allocate $5200/mo between the two?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...	$14k in student debt (all <5%) and need to save more for down payment on a ~$300k house. How to allocate $5200/mo between the two?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 370, 1047, 76, 275, 5974, 6735, 313, 455, 654, 22, 2673, 285, 878, 281, 5321, 625, 323, 1066, 7830, 327, 247, 5062, 5, 7554, 76, 2419, 15, 1359, 281, 29211, 370, 22, 1518, 16, 6972, 875, 253, 767, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	40	SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 10816, 2103, 249, 593, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 13036, 262, 907, 5974, 6735, 390, 13868, 323, 1066, 7830, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 452, 370, 1099, 76, 275, 5974, 6735, 15, 2596, 3055, ...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	319	SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...
t3_2bzi1g	relationships	My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months)	Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even as far as to offer oral favors while I'm drinking a beer! She seems completely happy and content during this time, which makes me h...	GF is a meanie-bo-beanie when I'm nice, and an absolute doll when I'm uninterested. Sex is bomb and she's the hottest I've ever dated. What do?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...	GF is a meanie-bo-beanie when I'm nice, and an absolute doll when I'm uninterested. Sex is bomb and she's the hottest I've ever dated. What do?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 33952, 310, 247, 1599, 466, 14, 2399, 14, 14844, 466, 672, 309, 1353, 5322, 13, 285, 271, 7880, 6135, 672, 309, 1353, 440, 39619, 15, 16678, 310, 10110, 285, 703, 434, 253, 43526, 309, 1849, 2455, 15483, 15, 1737, 513, 32, 0, 50277,...	42	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2752, 60, 1099, 78, 62, 19609, 544, 1348, 71, 62, 310, 760, 5322, 285, 17127, 672, 309, 1353, 355, 49912, 285, 13392, 15, 313, 26, 2607, 10, 187, 187,...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	410	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...
t3_552pxf	relationships	Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy?	I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiastic text that he usually would. He used to call me baby, babe but since last Sunday he has said none of those words and texting has been less and com...	I asked guy I have been dating for a month if everything was okay and now I regret it because I think it makes me look pushy /clingy.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti...	I asked guy I have been dating for a month if everything was okay and now I regret it because I think it makes me look pushy /clingy.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 2546, 5599, 309, 452, 644, 13597, 323, 247, 1770, 604, 3253, 369, 8261, 285, 1024, 309, 14938, 352, 984, 309, 1158, 352, 2789, 479, 1007, 43283, 1994, 1227, 36537, 90, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	33	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 3349, 401, 342, 5599, 309, 1353, 13597, 1884, 353, 428, 337, 1770, 13, 1680, 352, 8261, 281, 1642, 604, 3253, 310, 8261, 390, 717, 309, 1146, 4328...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	377	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti...
t3_fss6j	relationships	Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf?	The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks I am the best thing to ever happen to her but for some reason, learning about this, reall...	Gf said she almost didn't date me because I was too short. Now I am really turned off by her.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...	Gf said she almost didn't date me because I was too short. Now I am really turned off by her.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 443, 71, 753, 703, 2761, 1904, 626, 3522, 479, 984, 309, 369, 1512, 2159, 15, 50276, 4125, 309, 717, 1663, 3531, 745, 407, 617, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 502...	26	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1680, 352, 12504, 326, 436, 3531, 479, 745, 432, 619, 305, 71, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 380, 643, 1388, 619, 19609, 9, 1508, 1107, 1711, 10, 285, 4266...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	224	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...
t3_3mcrjk	relationships	I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen)	Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyfriend for absolutely no reason, crying at the drop of a hat, and all of that jazz.). Right around that time, my gyno told me that I was due to have my IUD removed. Oh, okay! That's why I was a hormonal wrec...	Had a big-ass ovarian cyst; scared that I'm irreparably broken; hormonal shitstorm ensues; worried I'm going to alienate my boyfriend with my behavior.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...	Had a big-ass ovarian cyst; scared that I'm irreparably broken; hormonal shitstorm ensues; worried I'm going to alienate my boyfriend with my behavior.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 14136, 247, 1943, 14, 515, 18984, 26242, 28, 16060, 326, 309, 1353, 21388, 1148, 1598, 7154, 28, 37085, 10739, 25576, 3994, 955, 28, 11926, 309, 1353, 1469, 281, 14165, 366, 619, 22273, 342, 619, 3879, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277,...	37	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 313, 1630, 16, 39, 10, 717, 691, 42480, 8140, 46197, 846, 247, 19859, 41286, 1975, 1786, 30272, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 5513, 619, 19082, 37085, 14, 12...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	433	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...
t3_38mtrj	relationships	Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:)	So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those of u who are himym fans...) but I have seriously never been in a relationship and have always been friendzoned which is fin...	I think I might like two girls at once. Don't want to; just want to be head over heels for one. Do I do anything before college?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:) POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ...	I think I might like two girls at once. Don't want to; just want to be head over heels for one. Do I do anything before college?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 1158, 309, 1537, 751, 767, 6838, 387, 2378, 15, 5037, 626, 971, 281, 28, 816, 971, 281, 320, 1481, 689, 25296, 323, 581, 15, 3166, 309, 513, 2712, 1078, 6831, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	33	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:) POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 13536, 547, 305, 1564, 273, 436, 749, 433, 22940, 4496, 1361, 479, 313, 1093, 78, 10, 562, 15, 7764, 285, 5717, 368, 37731, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, ...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	263	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:) POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ...
t3_4gbnkb	relationships	Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive	My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll be down to go 3 times a day and sometimes I'm only interested in once a week. I'm asking for advice because I ...	how do I deny sex with my boyfriend of 2.5 years without him feeling like I don't want to please him?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ...	how do I deny sex with my boyfriend of 2.5 years without him feeling like I don't want to please him?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 849, 513, 309, 13292, 2825, 342, 619, 22273, 273, 374, 15, 22, 1107, 1293, 779, 5471, 751, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 4496, 779, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 502...	26	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 938, 16, 39, 62, 1907, 7596, 342, 22273, 544, 1508, 16, 78, 62, 273, 374, 15, 22, 1107, 2825, 4446, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 22273, 285, ...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	403	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ...
t3_1e42z5	offmychest	I'm just really tired right now...	I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep about this and I have been becoming irritated at many things. Having enough...	I'm worried about moving out of parent's house and into an apartment with a boyfriend who doesn't really seemed worried at all.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm just really tired right now... POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a...	I'm worried about moving out of parent's house and into an apartment with a boyfriend who doesn't really seemed worried at all.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 1353, 11926, 670, 4886, 562, 273, 2885, 434, 2419, 285, 715, 271, 10230, 342, 247, 22273, 665, 2506, 626, 1663, 4455, 11926, 387, 512, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	27	SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm just really tired right now... POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 2727, 2577, 1962, 296, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 1353, 816, 1663, 11870, 987, 1024, 1051, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 816, 6888, 436, 749, 433, 22940, 285, 309, 717, 9995, 309, 858, 984, ...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	295	SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm just really tired right now... POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a...
t3_12n77s	relationship_advice	How to deal with questioning everything?	23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't or if I'm in a LTR with someone that is really not suited for me in the long term. Their...	Witnessing a different kind of relationship is making me question mine. I don't know whether this is all in my head or I'm onto something	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 46397, 64, 24301, 547, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1359...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...	Witnessing a different kind of relationship is making me question mine. I don't know whether this is all in my head or I'm onto something<\|endoftext\|>	[ 40177, 272, 247, 1027, 2238, 273, 2954, 310, 2403, 479, 1953, 7477, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 1880, 436, 310, 512, 275, 619, 1481, 390, 309, 1353, 4830, 1633, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	30	SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 46397, 64, 24301, 547, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1359, 281, 2968, 342, 20501, 3253, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 3495, 16, 71, 1060, 285, 8717, 310, 3436, 16, 78, 15, 20058, 323, 337, 15, 22, ...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	521	SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...

t3_1hxu8s

relationships

I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting

Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating roand it effected me more than I thought. It was a horrible time in my life due to living with my mother and finally having the chance to cut her ...

I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...

I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...

t3_33lz18

loseit

SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on.

30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my diet, and the last week and a half have been crazy with life things, ...

Progress is still happening, even when you think it might not be! Don't get discouraged, even if your journey seems to be going slowly. Don't give up, warriors.

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SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...

Progress is still happening, even when you think it might not be! Don't get discouraged, even if your journey seems to be going slowly. Don't give up, warriors.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...

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SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...

t3_38a85h

relationships

Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell?

What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've realized that there is someone who likes me, and I'm interested in them, too. Frankly, the only reason I'm not askin...

My skin is scarred badly; what could I do/say about it that would gross my future partner out the least? What's your experience with body image issues?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...

My skin is scarred badly; what could I do/say about it that would gross my future partner out the least? What's your experience with body image issues?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...

t3_2as12n

personalfinance

Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment?

I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of these, which will get rid of everything above 5% interest and will drop the total minimum payment t...

$14k in student debt (all <5%) and need to save more for down payment on a ~$300k house. How to allocate $5200/mo between the two?

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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...

$14k in student debt (all <5%) and need to save more for down payment on a ~$300k house. How to allocate $5200/mo between the two?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...

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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...

t3_2bzi1g

relationships

My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months)

Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even as far as to offer oral favors while I'm drinking a beer! She seems completely happy and content during this time, which makes me h...

GF is a meanie-bo-beanie when I'm nice, and an absolute doll when I'm uninterested. Sex is bomb and she's the hottest I've ever dated. What do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...

GF is a meanie-bo-beanie when I'm nice, and an absolute doll when I'm uninterested. Sex is bomb and she's the hottest I've ever dated. What do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...

t3_552pxf

relationships

Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy?

I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiastic text that he usually would. He used to call me baby, babe but since last Sunday he has said none of those words and texting has been less and com...

I asked guy I have been dating for a month if everything was okay and now I regret it because I think it makes me look pushy /clingy.

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I asked guy I have been dating for a month if everything was okay and now I regret it because I think it makes me look pushy /clingy.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti...

t3_fss6j

relationships

Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf?

The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks I am the best thing to ever happen to her but for some reason, learning about this, reall...

Gf said she almost didn't date me because I was too short. Now I am really turned off by her.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...

Gf said she almost didn't date me because I was too short. Now I am really turned off by her.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...

t3_3mcrjk

relationships

I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen)

Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyfriend for absolutely no reason, crying at the drop of a hat, and all of that jazz.). Right around that time, my gyno told me that I was due to have my IUD removed. Oh, okay! That's why I was a hormonal wrec...

Had a big-ass ovarian cyst; scared that I'm irreparably broken; hormonal shitstorm ensues; worried I'm going to alienate my boyfriend with my behavior.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...

Had a big-ass ovarian cyst; scared that I'm irreparably broken; hormonal shitstorm ensues; worried I'm going to alienate my boyfriend with my behavior.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...

t3_38mtrj

relationships

Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:)

So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those of u who are himym fans...) but I have seriously never been in a relationship and have always been friendzoned which is fin...

I think I might like two girls at once. Don't want to; just want to be head over heels for one. Do I do anything before college?

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I think I might like two girls at once. Don't want to; just want to be head over heels for one. Do I do anything before college?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:) POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:) POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ...

t3_4gbnkb

relationships

Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive

My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll be down to go 3 times a day and sometimes I'm only interested in once a week. I'm asking for advice because I ...

how do I deny sex with my boyfriend of 2.5 years without him feeling like I don't want to please him?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ...

how do I deny sex with my boyfriend of 2.5 years without him feeling like I don't want to please him?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ...

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t3_1e42z5

offmychest

I'm just really tired right now...

I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep about this and I have been becoming irritated at many things. Having enough...

I'm worried about moving out of parent's house and into an apartment with a boyfriend who doesn't really seemed worried at all.

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I'm worried about moving out of parent's house and into an apartment with a boyfriend who doesn't really seemed worried at all.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm just really tired right now... POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a...

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t3_12n77s

relationship_advice

How to deal with questioning everything?

23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't or if I'm in a LTR with someone that is really not suited for me in the long term. Their...

Witnessing a different kind of relationship is making me question mine. I don't know whether this is all in my head or I'm onto something

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...

Witnessing a different kind of relationship is making me question mine. I don't know whether this is all in my head or I'm onto something<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...